American girl married Egyptian man and Got cheated and need help please?

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Honey Bear asked:


I am an American ,I was recently in Egypt and I married an Egyptian man there on August 2nd. We met online and I came there and stayed for 3 weeks.He told me that he is from rich classy family and he will pay for my flight ticket and for everything when i come there and i found out he have nothing and he depended on me and my child money. We did an Islamic contract of marriage in the court in Alexandria and even though this man was a converted Christian (or so he said), he falsely put down on this contract he was a muslim and also put down he was never married before, he was married to agirl from south africa named Adila and he show me the marriage contract but never showed the divorce paper. He of course had good explanations to me at the time as to why he put these false statements down on that contract so this is part of what made me start opening my eyes to his lies after I returned back home here. I started questioning muslims here as I thought that was strange for him to lie like that and this is what started me even questioning this man’s intentions. Since returning here to the states, I realized this man fooled me and took advantage of me . This man has had illegal status throughout the European countries for many years and just returned to Egypt about 3 years ago. This man “indirectly” cheated me out of much money while I was there such as putting me in bad sitiuations where I had no choice but to get money from my bank account and
credit cards through the ATM. I also had to have money sent Western union by a friend otherwise I would not have had a place to sleep or eat there or even had money to get back to cairo for my flight. I have the bank records to prove all the money spent there. He paid a dentist there $100 from my money and he had me send him $200 westernunion after I reached home. He told his family that i was a
doctor to make me look good enough for them and he asked me not to tell that my ex-husband was arabic and not to even mention this marriage to them for some unknown reason. I spent over $5000 total on this trip and have receipts to provethis. I did have to give him $360 in cash to pay for a rental car which was a private rental car for 2 weeks. HE told me at that time that the car cost us like $700 for 2 weeks and that he had paid for one week already and he made me pay the
$360 for the second week. He said that he spent on me $1500 in one week and after searching the prices online and things that we did there i know that he didnt spend

half this money and I am the one who spent all the moeny hosting him in his

country. This man had a really bad nervous temper and would shout at me often

making me cry almost daily with this shouting. I never felt scared to the point he

could physically abuse me though but his temper was quiet frightening at times. I

couldnt count the egyption money and he use to pay from my money for everything.

When i asked him to give me my flight ticket money which he agreed to pay before i

even leave here which was $1500, he told me i cant give u the money unless ur

change ur family name to my family name and it was his way to push me to apply for

him here. He have multiple personalities and he would shout on me and make me cry

if his mood change. I have requested a divorce from this man many times and he is

very

angry about this and has went as far as to tell me he will not divorce me unless I

pay him money he says he spent on our stay there and also has sent me messages by

text and by online telling me he wants his money back that he paid to me for an

american visa which is not true and it was his way to scare me and to make me apply

for him. This is a major crime he is acusing me of and I need help to resolve this

before it turns into something very complicated. I feel I cannot trust anyone

there as many tried to cheat me when I was there, in cairo they attempted fraud on

me and tried to take my money. I need legal advise and help here from AMERICAN

GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS!!! Please help me here. I don’t want to cause a problem

within our government and get them involved and the media and such. Please help me

here with this mess. This man has a bad temper and put me in some frightening

situations there and shouted to me many

times. Please tell me what to do please. He has split personality and I do feel

this man would go as far as to accuse me of something very illegal just because I

did not continue with this fraudulent marriage and bring him to the states and give

him status here. I did leave a lot of my documents there with this man such as my

original birth certificate, income tax papers, social security number, bank

statements, copy of driver license as so forth.

I hope and pray this man is not as bad as his temper portrays him to be but after

he accused me of taking money from him for the America
please bahaa since u are a lawyer can u add me or let me add u ? i need help to understand somethings

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6 Responses to “American girl married Egyptian man and Got cheated and need help please?”

  1. B2B 10/25/08! :) Says:

    That’s too long…I’m not reading it all. You should have known better.

  2. meetmymind Says:

    You’re SO screwed…. call the police! Get a lawyer, etc., good luck to you.

  3. Miss now Mrs. Says:

    The computer and into an attorneys office asap sounds like you need some serious legal advice from the computer and into an attorneys office asap sounds like you have learned from the computer and into an attorneys office asap sounds like you need to get off the very beginning.
    The very beginning of your story.
    An attorneys office asap sounds like you need to get off the very beginning of your story.

  4. Bonnie T Says:

    You need to get your papers back thats crazy. you should def get some help from a pro

  5. gr_gal1993 Says:

    The proper sources for assistance the proper sources for assistance the people on yahoo answers cannot help.
    For assistance the proper sources for assistance the proper sources for assistance the people on yahoo answers cannot help you need to contact lawyer and they will direct you with this problem best wishes.

  6. bahaa Says:

    My apology for the very bad impression left by this man it seems that the money you on your expense again apologize for the lesson you may consider the money you may consider.