How do I find out if my husband was still married when we got married?
Monday, March 1st, 2010
KharizmaDiva asked:
I know you want to say that he can’t marry me until he gets a divorce from his first wife but my aunt married her present husband then filed for a divorce from her ex. Well, they lived in Alexandria Virginia and I’ve searched for public records but I can’t find a free site that shows the information online. I can request to have something mailed but I don’t want my husband to know. How do I find this info out without him finding out? I ask because if he was still married I will be filing for an annulment. P.S. It’s not like I’m hiding but I want to have all the info before I go further with this.
O.k. communication on my part doesn’t matter if I married a lier. Even presidents lie and we let them into our lives, then later want to get rid of them. Don’t try to put me down for being a trusting person, please this is already hard enough. Second, I know that the marriage wouldn’t be valid if he was married but I first need to find out if he was married in order to qualify for an annulment. I don’t want to get divorced then find out that I was actually eligible for an annulment. Please play nice.
ok i already feel stupid for letting this get pass me in the first place. I am sure my aunt was married before her divorce went through because they did it at the court house and I was there. then about a year later her divorce was finalized. i JUST WANT TO KNOW WHERE i CAN FIND THIS INFORMATION.
My problem is not having trust, it’s trusting too much and too easy.
I know you want to say that he can’t marry me until he gets a divorce from his first wife but my aunt married her present husband then filed for a divorce from her ex. Well, they lived in Alexandria Virginia and I’ve searched for public records but I can’t find a free site that shows the information online. I can request to have something mailed but I don’t want my husband to know. How do I find this info out without him finding out? I ask because if he was still married I will be filing for an annulment. P.S. It’s not like I’m hiding but I want to have all the info before I go further with this.
O.k. communication on my part doesn’t matter if I married a lier. Even presidents lie and we let them into our lives, then later want to get rid of them. Don’t try to put me down for being a trusting person, please this is already hard enough. Second, I know that the marriage wouldn’t be valid if he was married but I first need to find out if he was married in order to qualify for an annulment. I don’t want to get divorced then find out that I was actually eligible for an annulment. Please play nice.
ok i already feel stupid for letting this get pass me in the first place. I am sure my aunt was married before her divorce went through because they did it at the court house and I was there. then about a year later her divorce was finalized. i JUST WANT TO KNOW WHERE i CAN FIND THIS INFORMATION.
My problem is not having trust, it’s trusting too much and too easy.
