Divorce Records Search

Quanetta asked:


about a year ago me and my husband had a argument and i couldn’t understand why but i was so upset with how he was treating me in the midst of the argument that i basically threw my wedding rings at him, well later we tried to work our differences out and he gave me back my wedding rings, but something about the whole ordeal did not sit right with me, because he kept asking me why did i throw them and i told him that i was angry hurt and upset, and wanted him to feel a sting of pain.

but he wouldn’t accept my answer and kept questioning me about it, it was as if he wanted me to tell him something else but i had no clue of what he was trying to insinuate , so the more he questioned me the more suspicious of him i became and something told me to check his phone and when i did i found a text from a girl asking him was he coming out to see her at a club. she also had called him 2 days after the text had registered.( both from a long distance number) i called the number and a girls answered the phone but i was to in shock to say anything so i hung up. i got on our computer and found that during the time of our argument he had searched divorce sights and a sight that had the same name as the club she referred to.

I later realized that the club was a strip club, so i confronted him of my findings and he told me that he didnt know what i was talking about So i countered him and told him that the club had a different number so he told me it was to book entertaiment for his friends stag(which he had told me about prior to our argument) but i told him that i never heard of a business texting people and told him that i’d call the number and we could just get this cleared up but he insisted that we talk, so in my emotional state i chose to listen to him he went onto say that the call was for them to come view the girls for the party.

and as far as the divorce site was concerned he thought i was gonna leave him after the argument so he was trying to see what happens in divorce, so yeah i started to believe him and i figured i was overreacting because had he knew her he wouldn’t be searching the club she was talking about right so decided not to call back since i started to believe him.

But then i started thinking about the fact that he had told me that his friends was suppose to go this club 2 weeks prior to the text and call and i thought so why would the text come now thats just stupid so i decided to call the number again and this time i was gonna say something(this was only a week later from the discovery of the text)but to my surprise the number had been changed so now i was pissed, because deep down i felt like he wasn’t telling me the whole story and then i wandered why would the number be changed if this was a legitimate business number used to get guys to the club..

so i confronted him again he told me that i was crazy and he had no idea why the number was changed and that i’d never find anything because there was nothing to find….so again i let it go so 2 months later someone called our home and he rushed to grab the phone after he hung up he said it was a recording calling about health or medical something another… then he left to go to the bank.. well i called the number back and it said that the number could not be reached by this method so i hung up and asked one of my friends how could a number call me but i cant call it back and she told me that it was a pay phone…

so over the next few days a few more calls came through but i never was there when they did but every time i’d call them back and the same thing would happen so i called our house one day from a payphone just to test it he answered and i hung up, so when i got home i called it back and it said the same recording the others did so i confronted him about the payphones calling and he went onto say that he knew nothing about that but a payphone had called today(via myself) so we argued but in the end i came up with nothing once again

but heres the thing we been together for years and i truly want to believe him but it just doesn’t add up it makes no sense… and something about his eyes when i first confronted him makes me believe i am right, he told me that i was wrong about everything but his eyes told another story.

and as much as i search i never find anything out about the owner of the number…but his eyes are just embedded in my memory for him not to have done anything wrong his eyes looked sorry but his words seem more like what i wanted to hear what do yall think i try to move on but i cant until i piece it all together any suggestions opinions im confused

MrsMLM asked:


So, there’s this guy who I know that used to be unable to leave the state, because of his probation. He used to be married and beat his wife’s child, from a previous marriage severely, and was arrested for that. They have since divorced, and he was going to court for the charges. Anyways, this girl from my work, whom has two small children, is trying to date the guy now. I tried to tell her what he has done, but she doesn’t believe me and she is mad at me and got the guy pissed at me. He threatened to sue me for deformation of character. Can he do that? So, I did a background check to try to prove what he has done to her and there are only civil items on his report, but nothing criminal. My question is what about the things we do in life that are neither criminal nor civil, under what category do they fall? Why isn’t his record coming up? I called the sheriff’s office and they said they couldn’t share that information with me. I am really just trying to look out for her children being around him. If anyone has any advice on how I can go about obtaining a record let me know.

Jay100 asked:


Last communication was a letter (had misplaced it) received 16 years ago, which did not include a phone number. Friend is or was in the military–know her old overseas APO address, her old hometown address/phone number, her age, her full name, including maiden and married; and her grown son’s first name and date of birth. Do not know her husband’s first name. She may be divorced. Searched her old hometown address/phone number online–info is available but for various fees per several online services. Not sure which public records might be helpful.

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Uncertain asked:


I was dating a married man for a few months a while back, and his wife found out. He confessed his affair and ended his relationship with me. He must not have been honest with her about the time span of our relationship and suspected that she must have figured out that he hadn’t been completely honest. He had already erased all of the e-mails and other correspondences from early in our relationship, and he wants me to erase them on my end as well. I still look back at old e-mails and pictures from time to time, just for the good memories and so I’d really hate to erase them. I understand why he’d erase his though, because she can dig through them, and he’s making it seem that she can somehow access mine as well or take legal action to have my phone records and e-mails and computer searched. As far as I’m concerned, an affair is not a crime and even if it were, she already got a confession which is enough if she wanted a divorce, so she needs no further evidence…. Is there any way that she can really legally access my computer and/or emails? or is he just paranoid?

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