Now can she really do that?
Saturday, April 18th, 2009Uncertain asked:
I found myself dating a married man for a few months, and his wife found out. He confessed his affair and ended his relationship with me. He must not have been honest with her about the time span of our relationship and suspected that she must have figured out that he hadn’t been completely honest. He had already erased all of the e-mails and other correspondences from early in our relationship, and he wants me to erase them on my end as well. I still look back at old e-mails and pictures from time to time, just for the good memories and so I’d really hate to erase them. I understand why he’d erase his though, because she can dig through them, and he’s making it seem that she can somehow access mine as well or take legal action to have my phone records and e-mails and computer searched. As far as I’m concerned, an affair is not a crime and even if it were, she already got a confession which is enough if she wanted a divorce, so she needs no further evidence…. Is there any way that she can really legally access my computer and/or emails? or is he just paranoid?
I found myself dating a married man for a few months, and his wife found out. He confessed his affair and ended his relationship with me. He must not have been honest with her about the time span of our relationship and suspected that she must have figured out that he hadn’t been completely honest. He had already erased all of the e-mails and other correspondences from early in our relationship, and he wants me to erase them on my end as well. I still look back at old e-mails and pictures from time to time, just for the good memories and so I’d really hate to erase them. I understand why he’d erase his though, because she can dig through them, and he’s making it seem that she can somehow access mine as well or take legal action to have my phone records and e-mails and computer searched. As far as I’m concerned, an affair is not a crime and even if it were, she already got a confession which is enough if she wanted a divorce, so she needs no further evidence…. Is there any way that she can really legally access my computer and/or emails? or is he just paranoid?



