Archive for May, 2009

Writing letter to bio fathers family for medical records?

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009
danielle d asked:


I need to write a letter to find my husbands biological father. I know his name, general vicinity of where he lives, and know one of my husband’s half sisters names. There are a few other siblings, and I have an address for a woman that married my husband’s step brother (they are since divorced). My mother in law has been NO help. She knows people, who know people, who know people who know the biological father, but won’t reach out to help us find him.
I have no problem writing a letter to all of the people in the general vicinity with the same last name (thankfully there are only 35 in our state).
We are seeking medical information only as I have four children, one which had a rare condition at birth that was ruled out as hereditary from my side of the family tree, but could not be ruled out for my husbands family. (we were able to rule out that it was not hereditary from my husband’s maternal family)
Anyway, I am needing some assistance on how to word the letter. I tried searching the web, but no luck (or I am not putting in the optimum search words)
If someone has a letter that was affective in soliciting the information I would greatly appreciate you sharing.
Or if you of a website with sample letters that I can replicate.

TIA. I am making this my 2009 project.

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What am I to think/do/say?

Saturday, May 9th, 2009
Mesa asked:


Well I have been dating a guy I met online, well sort of met online. He is a friend of a friend an he introduced us then we started talking online an eventually dating. He lives local to me not even 2 miles away I have been to his house tons of times in the last 3 months, all times of day, usually spending the night. It’s a typical bachelor pad. Well today with a little snooping on public record search site I find out he’s married. It’s him on the site thats a fact everything matches up. My friend that introduced us knows nothing of him being married. He said he has never seen him go on more then a couple dates in a # of years. Well he got married to a girl 19 years his junior, which is 1 year younger then me just over a year ago. I haven’t seen hide nor hair of a wife in all this time. I know most his friends and nothing suggests there is a wife. I know for a fact they were married and there is no public documents to show a divorce. What am I to think of this? I’m confused….
No, there is no wife as far as I’m concerned. I haven’t seen one, no sign of one. Nothing to suggest it other then the papers I found. Should I ask him what the deal is? Did they get a annulment or is she locked up in jail somewhere?
The site is a court records site, it has his address, DOB and other info IT’S HIM.
I was only searching because I just foudn the site today and thought it was cool, I looked up damn near everyone I knew… I wasn’t looking just to find something on him.. I do know he was married once before but that was 20 years ago. This marraige was just last year.

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How do I find out If I’m divorced?

Friday, May 8th, 2009
NO BODY asked:


I filed for divorce two times and my wife contested the divorce doth times. we have been married for 22 years and separated for 9 years. I just got information form one of our friends, that she got remarried last year. what i want to find out is if we are divorced as far as I know we are still legally married because the court denied the divorce the last time I filed which was in 2005 and the court said i could not file again until she and I go to a court approved marriage counselor. and they determine if the marriage can saved. or not. but she refuses to go. but i have been told you can find divorce and marriage records for free on line. I have searched yahoo and google and all of the ones that say they are free are not free at all. or do i have to go in to the county courts to find out? and does that cost? Thank you
I want to be divorced I have a nice lady I want to marry but can’t, because as far as I know I am Still married and I was told i can’t file again untill we both see the counselor.

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How can you find out if you have a twin sister?

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009
lifeinthecarribean asked:


Ever since I was little I have always thought I had a twin sister. It would answer all my questions on life etc. Other then Divorce how else can be possible? I did se the commercial for the UnBorn which i think is stupid, but I really dont think she was a miscarriage. And well i just know theres connections between twins, and I just know shes out there somewhere.

How can I find out info such as this. Hospital records be held from 1989? Birth Certificate changed last name? I don’t know, I don’t think i’m quite ready to get a personal investigator just yet. What’s some stuff I can prepare and search for myself?