Archive for June, 2009

Default judgment against right name.wrong guy?

Monday, June 29th, 2009
Richard asked:


I live in California and was contacted at work in 2006 by an investigator that was looking for someone with my same first last name. It seems my father (he has the same name as me) defaulted on money owed through his business and they were suing him. After explaining that I was not the person they were looking for (this took many conversations before they finally believed me) and that unfortunately I was estranged from my father and could not even help them locate him, they finally quit calling.

Now in 2010 I am out looking for a job and this default judgment shows up on my record during a background check! I immediately contacted the company that had sued me and told them I would really like this off my record since they had sued the wrong person. They finally offerred to write me a letter saying that this was not me and that it was a mistake. That’s awesome except the judgment will still stay on my record.

Unfortunately many employers in Southern California where I live use the local court website to access peoples records for free instead of having to pay for a real background search. Frankly the problem is thus far if you pull up my information enough stuff shows up that I don’t need things there that aren’t legit.

I still have a child support failure to pay on my record because the genius people that run this state assumed since I was not married and I had a child with my girlfriend (she is now my wife of 15 years) that I must not be financially supporting them. They filed an unpaid child support on me for $16,000.00 (they finally caught me years after my kid was born and I was living in another state) and froze my bank account and it stayed that way until my wife explained to them that she and the child had been living with me and supported by me the entire time since the baby was born! They stopped messing with my bank account but still the stupid filing against me (even thought it shows there is not an issue anymore) still makes me look like crap to a potential employer.

Now I am possibly going to have another mistake on my record that will call into question my ability to pay bills and my integrity?! If you pull up my court information the following shows up: DIVORCE (from the early 90’s) DUI (from2001) CHILD SUPPORT (mistake!) THIS DEFAULT TO PAY (mistake!) I mean it’s one thing to pull up someones past and see a divorce from when they were a stupid 19 year old kid thinking he was old enough to get married and a DUI (heck I don’t know many men over 25 in Orange County that don’t have a DUI)…but to have 3 red flags show up instead of just one?! That makes a HUGE first impression and frankly I wonder how many employers have not even bothered to call me because of it.

Is there any way to get this new one removed from my file? I have never even tried or discussed removing the child support failure to pay as I assume since it’s the state it will be near impossible to do. It’s disgusting that they ended up on my record in the first place.

The lawyer for the company that sued my father is sounding like if they pull it from my record they have to drop the money owed? I am kind of trying to read between the lines since he did not actually say that, however I kind of was picking up that if they drop it from my record all the way then they are admitting they made a mistake by getting me involved and it’s kind of admitting they made a mistake? Heck maybe they just don’t want to cough up more money to sue my father again? I am definitely no lawyer…however I hope I can get some input on this.

Thanks alot in advance!

how can i find out if my husband is alive or dead?

Saturday, June 27th, 2009
coloring outside the lines asked:


my husband left after only being married for one year. It has been 5 years and I have never seen him again. He is schizophrenic (I found out on our honeymoon) and I would like to protect myself and the home in my name and also help his family to find out if he is ok. What are the best search engines to find people? search public records? death certificates? criminal cases? preferably free searches. I’m not the healthiest kid on the block and want to get a divorce if I have to so my boys will get my home. Thank you. I know this is a weird situation
My kids are not his. I owned the house before he and I got married but he sold his house to move into mine.
His family doesn’t know where he is.
The police don’t seem to care because he is schizophrenic.
I don’t really want advice I would like to know search engines so I can pursue this on my own. I already know I can file for a divorce without his signature.

Can anyone tell me how to find out if someone is married or divorced?(for free)?

Thursday, June 11th, 2009
Amy asked:


I have name, address and age of person that I need to know is either married or divorced. Just don’t know how to search public records to find out.

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Can anyone out there help me find my biological father? I have spent so much money with no luck in finding him

Sunday, June 7th, 2009
sweet4saucy asked:


his name is Harold Thomas Huber. DOB: 7/15/41 in NJ
His mother is MaryAlice Huber
His brothers: Robert and Fred
Sisters: Deloris Massett and Mary Huber all from NJ
he was married to my mom Janice J Pew on 7/15/65 and Divorced in 1972. I was only 2 1/2. I have spent alot of time and money trying to find him and it seems he’s dropped off the earth. I found a Harold T Huber in Pittsburg, PA but he says he’s not him? How can I prove him wrong if it is him? I’ve used US SEARCH, ROOTS WEB, WHOWHERE.COM, FAMILY PUBLIC RECORDS, ONLINE DECECTIVE SERVICES, BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN LOOKING FOR PARENTS, these all seem to dead end. I’ve had others say they would help but never do, so please dont bother if your just out for the 1POINT. I would really like to talk to this man who helped put me here even if its not a Happy Ending Please help and Thanks in Advance.