Divorce Records Search

guyincog asked:


My question…what is NEEDED to prove adultery in Texas. I’ve done a search and am having problems finding information specific to Texas except it is a no-fault or community property state. Pretty much what I’m gathering is that there pretty much needs to be some sort of photographic evidence (ie video or pictures) to prove it?

Can it be proven WITHOUT video or pictures? If so how?

I’m looking for some specific details as I am being sued for a divorce based on adultery and have not had any sort of sexual relations with another woman. There have been hugs, maybe a kiss, but these are brief and not passionate (truth is the woman is a co-worker and friend). I am unsure if they were observed.

Additionally are there any sort of loopholes that could prove adultery? Ie use of emails, phone records, etc.

Can the warning signs of a cheating spouse (found on many websites) be used to prove adultery?

I’m a bit concerned about getting railed over this whole.
Seriously, nothing has happend between myself and the supposed other woman. If that were the case, the question wouldn’t come to mind and it would me more a does she have proof of what I did thing. The situation is that I have not done anything with this woman and I believe that this will be something used to get an unequal settlement. Also, the whole problem of proving my innocence comes into play.

Also, one thing that probably needs to be considered…is the wife (soon to be ex wife) has had a long history of accusing of affairs when there was no affair and even fewer indications. Also, there is a history of some depression and possibly some psychological problems (which I may or may not be able to document).

In this woman’s opinion even smiling at a woman is indication that I am having an affair with someone.

Keeping this in mind, the initial allegation came while we were separated and I was running with the woman I am accused of having the affair with (this was in a p
Ok, I’ll answer to the defensiveness part and this is what could be considered a little bit crazy on my part.

I have continually heard about the evidence the wife has on me for about 2 years centering around the hair down running incident. I’ve heard it so many times that at some times I get the thoughts that maybe having a female friend IS considered aldultery! I know the LEGAL definitlon though.

I also worry that somehow the wife will make up / manufacture some sort of evidence to prove herself right. This is the type of person she is. I also have to question what a private investigator would do to provide their client with proof.

And yes, I have discussed this with a counselor..As for with the lawyer, he has been kind of keeping above this whole thing as this isn’t a big case (ie no real property, no kids, etc). Yes, I realize this is a whole different issue.

I kind of have that I’ve been falsely accused thing and don’t have the trust in the system.

Jello asked:


We were thinking about divorce, but we decided to fix our marriage. I found out that my husband has been texting some other women after the fact we were trying to fix our marriage. He told me the girl was his waitress when he went out with his friends on Thursday night. The waitress gave my husband the number and my husband decided a couple days later to text her. I was being noise and checked through our cell phone records and I saw a number I didn’t recognize. I decided to confront my husband about the number. I told him not to lie to me. I searched the number on a search engine and found out it was some girl’s number. What made me want to check our cell phone bill was because I looked at the history on the computer and noticed my husband was looking up divorce lawyers after the fact we agreed to fix our marriage. I was looking into history for a site I looked up the day before. It made me think he might be seeing someone. He has just been texting this girl for a week and half and he never once called her. He told me that he ended with her because he really wants this marriage to work. What really confuses me is that we have been trying for a baby this whole time. I told him he made a mistake and we will put this behind us. I told him I love him and I want to fix our marriage. He told me, that texting the girl was not cheating because he was thinking about divorcing me. We have been married for two years. What’s causing him to want divorce me is that I nag on him, yell at him, get mad at the smallest thing that’s not going to amount to anything and most of all I hate that he has to go out every Thursday night with his friend’s. If he stayed home one day on a Thursday, I would feel like I won the lottery. In my dreams that would happen. I told him that I want to talk about what happened and that when he goes out on Thursday I am going to get on to him to make sure that he is not meeting that girl. With my gut I feel all he did was text her and I know it was exciting for him to talk to a girl and I have no clue. My husband and I both know for now on I will be checking our cell phone bill information. What do you think?

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drjudgedread asked:


I wanted to set the record straight False Memory Syndrome I will reccomend people to search out http://www.fmsfonline.org/ also plug it into your search bar, fast answers..

Its like taking a Sausage and calling it a Orange.

the person who is eventually tricked into thinking like that is similar to the repressed memories thing falsified Child Sexual Abuse in Divorce is the #1 drive to destruction of a marriage , true there are a few pediphiles out there, I am aware of that and one served prison time for it.

I known a Co worker went thru that he decided to end his life. another case was very bizzare twist the accuser had somehow lied to a minister stating she never had interests in destroying that marriage, ex boyfreind is in prison ( strange how she never mentioned what for ! ) it split up the church however. she was totally unstable , she was booted out, also please stay away from these phoney support abuse groups, therapists are not phycatrists, stay away !

damehello asked:


I was married and divorced in Northern Va back in the mid 90’s, and I’m trying to get remarried, but I have to give them a date as to when it happened and, I must have subconstiously buried the info way deep in my brain, because honest to God, I can’t remember for the life of me!! I’ve searched the web, even paid a site to get that info, and no such luck, I can’t believe I don’t remember any of that! Can anyone help me?? I’m desperate!
Well, I don’t even remember which city it happened in!! I called 3 courthouses in 3 different cities in N Va, and no records!! I have a time issue. What if I made up a date, could I get in trouble?

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