Archive for September, 2009

where online can I find a copy of my name change court paperwork?

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009
Aubrey asked:


ok i need that paperwork from 3 years ago. i want to save myself a stressful trip downtown. I can’t find the final papers in my mess of an office. i filed in Sacramento, California.

the http://www.saccourt.ca.gov/ site says you can search for public records. i can’t find my documents there. anyone have a clue where i can get a copy? i know it is a public document. there has to be a way to get it online. i will never change my name again, this has been the most frustrating experience. i just wanted to go back to my birth name. why didn’t i put the correct name on my divorce paperwork. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. help!

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In the state of Florida..how hard is it to get sole custody of ones child?

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009
nicole asked:


I was not married to the father. His name is not on the birth certificate. We have not seen him in over 2 years. He was ordered to pay child support but hasn’t in over 2 years. He, when he use to visit her would in danger her life. He would smoke around her and she has really bad asthma. He would take her for rides on his motorcycle after she had brain surgery. He drinks and he does drugs. He does have a police record. Do you know will they actively search for him or just the last place of residence that I supply to them? The reason I need this is that I’m moving out of the country to be with my husband, her step(real)father and I don’t need anything standing in the way. Otherwise if I can’t get this straightened out I will have to divorce my love and tell my daughter she will no longer have a dad. This will devastate her. Also if I do go thought the courts to get it legal should I tell them about me needing to move? Please I need some serious advice I really dont’ know if I can afford a lawyer right now it’s going to cost almost $10,000 to move

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**New Scoop on YR**?

Tuesday, September 29th, 2009
~sweetheart♄~ asked:


Cane/Nina: Still working hard on the screenplay of Katherine’s life, Nina tries to get more info about Cane’s past, but hits a roadblock in the form of Katherine herself. Cane gets a bit peeved about Nina’s investigation and decides to ask Katherine to stop Nina from snooping. Unfortunately for Cane, gumshoe Paul is already looking into the Aussie barkeep’s past and uncovers some juicy news. Violet Montgomery, the woman Katherine said she gave Cane to after he was born, was never in Genoa City around that time. Once Nina hears this, her spidey senses are on high alert . She knows something is not right with Cane. So far, Cane hasn’t dipped into the Chancellor fortune or taken the family name so nothing sticks out for Nina, but she still feels as though he’s hiding something.

Nina goes to Katherine with her findings and Katherine tells Nina to stop searching into Cane’s past. While the women are getting into it, Jill arrives and sticks up for Cane. Jill and Nina go head-to-head about her findings while Katherine acts like Switzerland. Nina then informs them both about her son, Phillip IV: He’s showing signs of Huntington’s disease and Phillip III’s DNA needs to be tested. Nina lets Jill and Kay know she will have his remains exhumed for testing. Jill informs Nina that P3’s body doesn’t need to be dug up since he had a DNA test ran on him after Katherine opened up about the baby switch. Nina then decides to call the lab for the test to be done, but finds out they don’t have any records of P3’s DNA being ran! Nina also finds out the doctor who ran the test was fired. Due to Nina’s snooping, Cane calls Phillip and gets him to send a vial of his blood. Nina has P3’s body dug up and his grave is empty!

Sharon: The wait is over for fans wanting to know who Sharon’s baby daddy is. Sorry Shack and Phick fans, Nick will be revealed to be the father.

Billy/Mac: Incapable of denying her love for Billy, Mac confesses she called off her engagement to Raul. Later, Chloe finds Mac in Billy’s room.

Adam/Ashley/Victor: After Victor finds out Ashley has a new doctor, he decides to meet up with him at the GCAC. Ash really likes the guy and doesn’t see anything wrong with him, especially since he doesn’t think she needs a shrink like BFF Olivia. Ash is starting to wonder if she’s losing it again, but at the same time, gets pissed when her loved ones question her sanity. Ash still believes it is Estella who has been behind all the craziness at the ranch, but the trusty housekeeper isn’t around to blame. During Victor’s questioning, Dr. Taylor is a bit squeamish and becomes very scared when Olivia comes over to the table and recognizes him. Liv knows Dr. Taylor’s reputation and lets the couple know he’s a great doctor and once Victor hears this, he’s fine with him tending to Ash. Once Dr. Taylor leaves the couple start to go over baby names, since Dr. Taylor informed them the pregnancy is progressing smoothly .

Victor finds out Nick left Phyllis for Sharon and is living at the club. Ashley decides to head home to give the father and son time to talk. Victor grills Nick about breaking up his family. Victor likes Sharon more than he does Phyllis, but he knows first hand what a divorce can do to kids and is worried about how this will all affect Summer (Yes, Victor of all people, has the balls to say that mess!). Nick lets his pops know he’s in love with Sharon and she’s the one for him. Victor heads off to the ranch to spend time with Ashley. At home, Adam listens to his recording of Sabrina’s voice on his computer when it gets stuck and starts to play continuously! Unfortunately for him, Victor and Ashley hear it all and Ashley recognizes it as the recording she heard on the phone! They both storm into Adam’s room wanting to know what the hell is going on. This is when Victor and Ashley figure out that Adam’s behind the craziness at the ranch.

Ashley panics with this revelation because it also makes her wonder if Adam is the culprit, then maybe she wasn’t dreaming about losing her baby. Adam goes on the defensive and feigns innocence. He tries to get on Ashley’s good side. Ash still doubts Adam’s denials, which scares him since Ashley has always been on his side and he needs her in his corner. Victor, on the other hand, doesn’t believe Adam and lets him know he’s not going to be hustled by him anymore! A quick thinking Adam mentions Estella was at the ranch and could be framing him. For the moment, Adam is in the clear with Victor and Ashley. They decide to take his word, but Ashley’s feelings for Adam start to change.

Victor tries to soothe Ash’s paranoia about being on the ranch and lets her know if Adam is tormenting her, his son will rue the day he messed with Ashley! Later, Estella winds up being charged with harassing Ashley and Adam gets some devastating news. Dr. Donahue tells him he will lose his sight completely. Before the exam, Adam accidentally drops his bottle of Botox before he can inject h

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My Husband had a secret cell, was hiding family money and bad mouthed me to who would listen. Should I stay?

Thursday, September 24th, 2009
KAYLA asked:


My husband of 20 years was a teacher a teacher at Katherine Gibbs college. We also have 5 kids together, two that are still in elementary school. He had access to the student phone numbers at the college. He decided to get a secret cell phone to call one of his students and ask out for dates. He was obsessed and called her 6-7 times a day for a few months. Most of the calls were to her answering machine based on cell phone records. She did call back a few times, but only to get a reference from him for a job. She kinda knew he was a fool and used him to make sure she got what she wanted and never did meet him. I found the phone in his car hidden one day. When i took a look at the phone numbers dialed, i noticed one number was dialed every day repeatedly. Being good a research. I did a reverse phone number search and call the number. Sure enough it was a student at the college he was stalking. I spoked with her and she told me she was definitely not interested in him and that she never did give her number to him. She needed a reference for a job and did call him but he took it the wrong way. She told me he was bad mouthing me to her when he did get through and actually talk to her. She warned me that he was my enemy and I should know how he feels. She told me even after I found the phone he was still calling her from pay phones. When I told my husband what the student said and the fact not interested and that also she was going to let me know if he continued calling. That is when he stopped. All this SAME time my son, who is in college told me my husband was hiding money in his school locker for personal reasons. My husband did return the family money when confronted. I also had been told that he was bad mouthing me to a family friend who is our accountant. It’s crazy how these people think I should know his true behaviors. Now that he has been caught, he is trying to work it out. He says he is sorry, however i did wrong in the past too and I should forgive him. He has been showing me where all the money goes and keeps telling me to stop thinking about what he did in the past. I am shattered and don’t know what to think anymore. I am not sure if I can ever trust again. Do I divorce or work it out if he is willing to be faithful and act like a proper husband?
99% percent of his calls to her where only a minute in length. This made me think she was not picking up and he was only getting a machine.

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how can i find out if I am divorced in El Paso, Texas?

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009
mariachi asked:


are there free vital record searches

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How do I find my birth father?

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009
Mandaa[: asked:


So my parents got divorced. In the process, I accidentally came across a bit of information that shocked me. I’m 14 years old and last year I found out that the person I called dad up until my parents got divorced, isn’t really my dad. My mom had told me that she had gotten married before, but I didn’t think that he was my birth father! My mom DOESN’T know that I know, and I plan on her not knowing until my 16th birthday. Unless of course she tells me first. I know shes scared that I’m going to want to see him and stuff, because she brings up hypothetical situations sometimes when we watch lifetime movies. I’m just curious.. I mean, I despise my dad and I’m not going to go running to this guy who’s DNA I have because he gave me up and I don’t want to be a part of his life. I just want to know his name. I have searched the public records for the county I grew up in, but I found that my mom married another guy in between, because the dates didn’t match up. I just need to figure out a way to find out my birth fathers name. Can anyone help me?
The information was just that I had a different dad.

Thanks for the help! It really got me thinking..

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