Divorce Records Search

momma2oneboy asked:


all my brothers and sisters were taking away from our mother when we were young and split up across the united states.. we were all adopted into different families.. i have met and reunited with most of them and found them pretty much on my own without a service to help.. but….. the ones who are left to find that im having trouble with our my 2 brothers who are twins.. i know they were adopted together, but i dont know what there adopted last name is. they are about 19 or 20 now and i think they live in michigan somewhere.. the other one is my sister whom i did have contact over the phone.. we exchanged pictures via mail.. i know she was married, but at the time was thinking of a divorce. not sure if that happened. texas is were i think she still lives.. i do know her maiden name though.. so does anyone know any free sites were i can find some records on my family. i already know the free people search, but anything else to give me some leads here.. i dont have alot of $$

Faery007 asked:


I am a recently divorced mother looking for a place to live in Orange County, California. Catch, I have a bankruptcy on my record. I currently pay rent and have on time for 6 months plus. I have references and a good paying job. I have till this weekend to be out of my current slum home. It’s bad and to top it off, my 4 year old is Autistic Hearing impaired. Makes searching a bit harder when we live in San Diego. That’s about 100 miles south of Orange County. WE NEED HELP and our time is running out. Help us. We need a 3 bedroom for max $2500. We can pay a deposit and 6 months rent up front. I have enough saved to make the move and pay our rent.

Thank you,
Melissa Smith

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Nina asked:


Hi, my name is Nina, and I would appreciate getting some help and advice.

My husband Brent and I have been happily married for over 20 years, and we have 2 great teenagers, our health, large extended families, good jobs, a nice home, a safe neighborhood, are active in church, and take several fun vacations each year. I have been a loving and attentive wife, and Brent has been a good and decent husband.

The problem is that Brent says he no longer wants to be married to me. I am deeply concerned that Brent is becoming mentally unstable, or perhaps it is a mid-life crisis (he’s 50).

Brent has been becoming increasingly restless over the past year (he claims that he is lonely), just because I do not enjoy passionate kissing or foreplay and refuse to pretend that I enjoy any of those activities… and I have never enjoyed any of those activities nor pretended otherwise.

Several times recently, Brent has stated that once our youngest teenager moves out of the house in a few years, he will be leaving also. His rude and mean words are breaking my heart, and I cannot believe what I am hearing. It make take a few days before he apologizes and promises that we’ll be together forever, but then the cycle starts up all over again when he gets mad because I still won’t kiss him passionately.

For the record, Brent can make love to me anytime that he wants to; subject to a few minor restrictions which have been in effect since our wedding night. I flatly refuse to let Brent do any of the following activities to me: long kisses, wet kisses, French kisses, sucking on my lips or ears, breathing on my face, doing anything with his tongue, taking a shower together, or touching me anywhere near my private parts (breasts or pubic areas). I also flatly refuse his constant requests for me to do any of those activities to him. Brent even gets insulted just because I don’t want his face near my face for any longer than I can hold my breath, because then I need to turn away so I can start breathing again.

We are good Christians and we were both virgins when we got married. I never let him do any of those activities to me before we got married, and he must have wrongly assumed that I would want to do any of those activities after the marriage ceremony.

Now Brent claims that he hates our marriage, because he is lonely and he believes that I view him as a perverted creep for all of the activities that he has been asking me to engage in for the past 20 years. Well, I don’t view him as a perverted creep but I am certainly not going to start pretending that I enjoy those activities. I love Brent unconditionally and want him to love me exactly the same way.

Telling Brent that I love him and reminding him that we got married “for better or for worse” in a union blessed by God no longer seems to have much of an impact on Brent. I have informed Brent on numerous occasions that he needs to pray more and read the Bible, but those suggestions were not appreciated and have been ignored.

The distant past seems to be a sore point for Brent. I have told Brent numerous times that I am sorry that I laughed at him 20 years ago (after we had been married for a few months) when he told me he was lonely, wanted passionate kissing, and suggested counseling. So what if I refused to go with him to counseling for 5 years? Nobody is perfect. Yet, Brent keeps bringing up that incident and will not let go of the past.

Speaking of the past, Brent had a girlfriend 22 years ago, who was apparently very good at pretending that she enjoyed passionately kissing him. They would kiss for hours, according to Brent, and he never forgot her. Brent even searched for her and found her on the internet last year. She’s divorced and available, and that fact has certainly not helped Brent’s unstable mental condition at all.

Understandably, I am sick and tired of being compared to some young floozy that Brent knew 22 years ago.

Brent has been moody lately, becomes quite mean and nasty, and gets very upset whenever we try to discuss his perception that I do not measure up to his impossible demands. He withdraws, won’t talk unless I speak to him first, pouts, makes only minimal eye contact with me, rarely cuddles with me in bed anymore, and generally acts like a dullard. Brent claims that he feels like he has never been within a mile of my soul, and also claims that we don’t even know each other (neither of which do I understand).

Brent does not seem to appreciate any of the non-stop work that I perform: cooking, cleaning, laundry, ironing, buying presents for our gigantic extended family, paying all of the bills, teaching Sunday School, teaching Vacation Bible School, reading the Bible and praying every night, volunteering at the kid’s school (even when I am not feeling well), and that is all in addition to my full-time stressful job. Nor does Brent appreciate in the slightest bit the love notes I make f

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Honey Bear asked:


I am an American ,I was recently in Egypt and I married an Egyptian man there on August 2nd. We met online and I came there and stayed for 3 weeks.He told me that he is from rich classy family and he will pay for my flight ticket and for everything when i come there and i found out he have nothing and he depended on me and my child money. We did an Islamic contract of marriage in the court in Alexandria and even though this man was a converted Christian (or so he said), he falsely put down on this contract he was a muslim and also put down he was never married before, he was married to agirl from south africa named Adila and he show me the marriage contract but never showed the divorce paper. He of course had good explanations to me at the time as to why he put these false statements down on that contract so this is part of what made me start opening my eyes to his lies after I returned back home here. I started questioning muslims here as I thought that was strange for him to lie like that and this is what started me even questioning this man’s intentions. Since returning here to the states, I realized this man fooled me and took advantage of me . This man has had illegal status throughout the European countries for many years and just returned to Egypt about 3 years ago. This man “indirectly” cheated me out of much money while I was there such as putting me in bad sitiuations where I had no choice but to get money from my bank account and
credit cards through the ATM. I also had to have money sent Western union by a friend otherwise I would not have had a place to sleep or eat there or even had money to get back to cairo for my flight. I have the bank records to prove all the money spent there. He paid a dentist there $100 from my money and he had me send him $200 westernunion after I reached home. He told his family that i was a
doctor to make me look good enough for them and he asked me not to tell that my ex-husband was arabic and not to even mention this marriage to them for some unknown reason. I spent over $5000 total on this trip and have receipts to provethis. I did have to give him $360 in cash to pay for a rental car which was a private rental car for 2 weeks. HE told me at that time that the car cost us like $700 for 2 weeks and that he had paid for one week already and he made me pay the
$360 for the second week. He said that he spent on me $1500 in one week and after searching the prices online and things that we did there i know that he didnt spend

half this money and I am the one who spent all the moeny hosting him in his

country. This man had a really bad nervous temper and would shout at me often

making me cry almost daily with this shouting. I never felt scared to the point he

could physically abuse me though but his temper was quiet frightening at times. I

couldnt count the egyption money and he use to pay from my money for everything.

When i asked him to give me my flight ticket money which he agreed to pay before i

even leave here which was $1500, he told me i cant give u the money unless ur

change ur family name to my family name and it was his way to push me to apply for

him here. He have multiple personalities and he would shout on me and make me cry

if his mood change. I have requested a divorce from this man many times and he is

very

angry about this and has went as far as to tell me he will not divorce me unless I

pay him money he says he spent on our stay there and also has sent me messages by

text and by online telling me he wants his money back that he paid to me for an

american visa which is not true and it was his way to scare me and to make me apply

for him. This is a major crime he is acusing me of and I need help to resolve this

before it turns into something very complicated. I feel I cannot trust anyone

there as many tried to cheat me when I was there, in cairo they attempted fraud on

me and tried to take my money. I need legal advise and help here from AMERICAN

GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS!!! Please help me here. I don’t want to cause a problem

within our government and get them involved and the media and such. Please help me

here with this mess. This man has a bad temper and put me in some frightening

situations there and shouted to me many

times. Please tell me what to do please. He has split personality and I do feel

this man would go as far as to accuse me of something very illegal just because I

did not continue with this fraudulent marriage and bring him to the states and give

him status here. I did leave a lot of my documents there with this man such as my

original birth certificate, income tax papers, social security number, bank

statements, copy of driver license as so forth.

I hope and pray this man is not as bad as his temper portrays him to be but after

he accused me of taking money from him for the America
please bahaa since u are a lawyer can u add me or let me add u ? i need help to understand somethings